Process

We believe the Divorce and Co-Parent Mediation processes we offer are superior—more efficient, cost-effective, and gentler. We dedicate and pride ourselves on crafting complete separation agreements and co-parent memorandums of understanding that work well for our clients and for their children.

Phase 1

Pre-Mediation Meeting

After having selected Divorce Mediation Strategies, clients meet individually with one of our Mediators for a private planning/intake session focused on:

  • Fact Gathering: The Who, What, Where, and Why of your particular situation
  • Individual Goal Setting and Identification of Issues of Interest
  • (If applicable) Parenting Plan Key Issue Identification
  • (If applicable) Preliminary Family Re-Organization Planning
  • Family and Individual System Wellness Check Up
  • Massachusetts State Mandatory Parenting Class Resource Information

Phase 2

Mediation Meetings

Prior to our first meeting, all clients read and sign a Mediation Participation Agreement and the interests and goals of both spouses/co-parents, their children, and the issues at hand are identified and prioritized.

  • A financial Statement Tutorial session is scheduled to assist you in creating your mandatory financial statements
  • A series of subsequent 2 hour mediation meetings is scheduled
  • Mediation Meetings continue to occur until all important issues have been identified, understood, discussed, and resolved to your satisfaction
  • Agreement summaries are written and reviewed to ensure accuracy and clarity
  • If needed, homework is assigned and due at the following meeting in order to keep the process forward moving and productive
  • Communications occur between meetings, as needed.

Phase 3

Post-Mediation Settlement Finalization

During this phase, a divorce (separation) agreement outlining a complete listing of all of the important issues that have been agreed upon is drafted, revised, and approved by our clients. This phase also includes:

  • Review and discussion of the agreement
  • Revisions/fine tuning by clients and the mediation team
  • Agreement Approval
  • Court Process Planning which includes Preparation of All Materials Needed by Clients for Court Approval and Tutorial on the Court Process

Phase 4

Post Divorce Follow up

Three to six months after the finalization of your divorce, a member of our team will contact each of you for a brief ‘check in’ to determine how the agreement and the parenting plan are working for you and your family and identify any areas that might need adjusting, over time.